Real Talk: the Problem with Waiting Until You're Ready

Hey, everyone and happy Thursday. I hope you all are having a wonderful week so far. Tuesday night my littles officially got their own littles, which means I am officially a gbig. Wow, do I feel old! :P Maybe it's my recent passing down of tradition or the foggy fall days, but I've been very introspective this week. For way too long I've been telling myself I'm not 'ready'-- not ready for a lot of things. I'm not ready to get the job of my dreams because I don't have enough experience. I wasn't ready to move out on my own because I don't have full time job. I wasn't ready to start a blog because I didn't know what I was doing. I'm not ready- not ready-- not ready. After unintentionally putting myself down for so long, I realized I was doing it all wrong. Because who on earth is ever 'ready'?




What I've realized in my job hunt and blog life and life post graduation in general, is that if you wait until you're ready, you'll never be ready. When I first started this blog, I was watching SarahBelle YouTube videos like it was my job and had just started piecing together my own sense of fashion. I had no idea what I was talking about and was still learning myself, but I was inspired and wanted to take the leap to start my own blog. I had no idea what I was getting myself into and wouldn't know the half of blogging for another year and half after that. Talk about not being ready! Logically, I probably should have waited. I should have done more research, read other peoples' blog, or otherwise invested in the adventure I was about to start. But the problem with waiting until you're ready is that you may never be 'ready'. There were so many things I 'needed' to know -- so many steps I should have taken-- when it came to blogging that I didn't have the knowledge about or money to invest in. Heck, there's still a lot I don't know about or things I haven't invested in. But there are so many amazing opportunities and experiences I've gained from starting this blog when I sure as hell wasn't 'ready'.



And that's life.



When will you ever be ready? How can you even know what 'ready' is if you're constantly learning and gaining new experiences? At some point in life, you realize you have a handle on things. That you're surviving without needing to fully understand all of the steps, or without investing in everything you're 'supposed' to be investing in. But if you wait to ask for that promotion, if you wait to start that new business or relationship or family -- if you keep putting your life, your passions, the things that truly inspire or excite you on hold until you're ready, you'll end up missing out on a lot of what life has to offer. All we can do is take it one day at a time and do the best we can. So don't wait until you're ready! Jump in head first. The beauty is that you've started--you've set yourself on track for something that could lead to an amazing adventure. Sure, it may be a flop, but you'll never know until you start. Some day you might find you were 'ready' all along.




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Your Next Must Visit Brunch Spot in NYC

Hey, there! For those of you new to the blog, last month I visited NYC with Mason to celebrate my birthday with my sister and her boyfriend. It was seriously such a jam-packed weekend. I don't think I've ever done more things in one weekend--we even made it onto national TV! (More on that later.) Earlier this month I raved all about the different Speakeasies we went to. Yes, we visited not one, but TWO different speakeasies! They were so unique and fun in their own ways. I would highly recommend taking a visit to one if you get the chance. :) Today, however, I've decided to share with you a bit more about that fun filled weekend.








As all good basic white girls know, brunch is the be all, end all of meals. Maybe it's the fact that alcohol is suddenly appropriate (and made deliciously) before noon, or maybe its savory Eggs Benedict. Whatever the reason, of all the things I wanted to do in New York City on my birthday weekend, brunch was a MUST. Now, when I started looking up brunch spots I was absolutely lost. It's New York City, I guess I should have expected brunch spots to be on every corner. And they quite literally were! My friend had recommended me to go to Cafeteria-- their cinnamon buns looked bomb! On this particular trip, though, we were in search of bottomless drinks. Yes--- bottomless. We found our sweet spot at an adorable restaurant in Chelsea called Lasagna.






This cozy Italian restaurant was the perfect location for Saturday Brunch. The space is a little on the smaller side, but the decor (including a floor to ceiling mirror) and the many windows made the space feel open and inviting. The food was absolutely delicious and most definitely Instagram worthy! So, by now you're just about sold. You're probably thinking to yourself, "Wow, what a quintessential New  York place to grab Brunch. I should definitely put this on my to do list for the next time I visit the Big Apple." If you aren't quite sold yet, though, ...(drumroll, please)... they have bottomless drinks for two hours and it only costs $11.


Let me repeat that, in the city where one cocktail at dinner cost $15 a pop, you can get bottomless mimosas, Bloody Mary's, screwdrivers and bellini's for two hours for only $11


Do I even need to say anything more?! Oh right, you can mix and match your drinks as many times as you want! Decide you want to change your Bloody Mary to a Bellini? NO PROBLEM! Do that as much as you tipsy heart desires! If you're honestly not convinced at this point, this is all I have for you:


#dissapointed 



All joking aside, Lasagna really was an amazing spot for brunch. I loved everything about it and will definitely be returning in the future! I'm also the type of person who loves to try every brunch place out there. If you have a favorite brunch spot in NYC (or really anywhere, I love to travel!), leave it in the comments below! I will never tire of morning mimosas and Eggs Benedict. 



That's all for today's post! As always, don't forget to follow me on all forms of social media (linked below). I love to share fashion, beauty, coffee and the comedic tragedy that is my life--don't miss out on the fun! Until next time, 






xoxo,

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Pumpkin Snickerdoodles

Hello, all! In my quest to be as white girl and fall as possible, I have made it my mission to start cooking as many fall inspired dishes as possible. Be sure to check out my full Fall Bucket List here. :)  I have only created one dish and it's hella easy, but I've at least started on my mission! Last weekend, my boyfriend and I made Pumpkin Snickerdoodles and oh my god were they amazing! Just the perfect amount of pumpkin spice with a light, fluffy center. I couldn't stop eating them! This recipe is so yummy and easy, a 12 year old could create these with no problem whatsoever! ( I don't know what that says about my cooking abilities, but I'm going to roll with it). SOO, if you're in the market for an easy, festive fall treat this recipe is perfect for you!







I actually came across this recipe for pumpkin snickerdoodles on Certified Pastry Aficionado! Her blog is absolutely stunning and her recipes look even more amazing. I was thinking about trying to recreate her Apple Pie Cinnamon Rolls. Her pictures look so mouth watering & I do love a good cinnamon roll, but, alas, that was far too adventurous for me for the first time around. If you're ever in the mood to bake and don't know what to create, I would highly recommend checking out her page! Any-who, off to the recipe!




INGREDIENTS: 
  • 2 3/4 cups flour
  • 2 teaspoons cream of tartar
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon
  • 1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg
  • 1/8 teaspoon ground ginger
  • 1/8 teaspoon ground cloves
  • 1 1/2 cups sugar
  • 2 sticks butter unsalted, softened
  • 1 large egg
  • 3/4 cups pumpkin puree
For coating the cookies:
  • 1/4 cup sugar
  • 1-2 tablespoons ground cinnamon



INSTRUCTIONS:

  1.  Mix together the flour, baking soda, salt, cream of tartar (not the soup lolz) and spices.
  2. Cream the sugar and egg until light and fluffy. (Mason and I didn't have a mixer on hand, so this whole mixing process took a tad bit longer than it should have. It is an excellent way to tone your biceps, though!)
  3. Add the softened butter and pumpkin puree and mix until thoroughly combined.
  4. Slowly add your dry ingredients (flour, baking soda, salt, cream of tartar and spices) to the wet ingredients 
  5.  Place scoops of cookie dough on a greased cookie sheet until all of the dough is gone.
  6.  Here's the kicker guys, you have to refrigerate these bad boys for 8 hours. I know, I know, I was super saddened when I realized I would have to wait so long before enjoying my delicious creation, but it is a necessary evil. 
  7. After fully chilled, preheat oven to 400 degrees
  8. Combine your cinnamon and sugar (add/decrease amounts to taste) 
  9. Completely coat each cookie with the mixture and place on cookie sheet
  10. Bake in preheated oven for 10-12 minutes and voilà! A delicious fall treat perfect for crisp afternoons reading your favorite book or family dinners. 





I think I may recreate these for Thanksgiving! It would be a perfect twist on the traditional pumpkin pie (even though I know I will also be stuffing my face with pumpkin pie, too). What is your favorite fall dessert? Now that I've started baking I want to try something more challenging! Comment below with suggestions! :) As always, don't forget to follow along my social medias for all sorts of Rachel Lynn fun. I snapped the whole baking adventure-- Bitmoji's included! Don't miss out next time. :)



xoxo,


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10 Must Watch Flicks for Halloween

I love Halloween. I love everything about it!  --the spookiness in the air, the terror around every corner, walking around trick or treating, hoping nothing pops out at you. The thrill can be intense and this year I am more than ready for it! I've been  signing up for 'haunted' events like it's my job and am actually going to Fright Nights at Kennywood tonight! (Be sure to follow along my snapchat for all of the ghostly fun -- rgolden75!) Can you believe Halloween is only 17 days away?! There's so much I want to do before it arrives! To get in the Halloween mood, or to keep the excitement rolling, I love watching something spooky. There's nothing better than huddling up with your favorite people to shriek every time the monster lunges on screen. So, today, in honor of this very spooky time of year, I'm brining you my favorite shows and movies to help me get in the Halloween spirit!






 1. American Horror Story
 If you've been reading along with my posts lately, AHS has been a bit of an obsession of mine and its no secret why. This show has every thing Halloween-- from ghosts to psychos to 'freaks' and murders. And there certainly is no short supply of mystery! What I especially love about this series is how different, yet oddly similar each of the seasons are. It's not like they recycle plots or you get bored of seeing similar story lines play out, but there is definitely a faint, underlying thread that you just can't figure out. Each season can be watched alone or out of order and you wouldn't be any the wiser.

 2. Stranger Things
 If you haven't started watching this show, I advise you to cancel all of your plans tonight, grab a bag of popcorn and your favorite comfort blanket and start watching! This season has only eight episodes-- EIGHT! This can easily be completed in one evening and you won't want to stop watching once you've started. The story line is so intense, yet believable and the characters are absolutely phenomenal. I love how the story follows closely to the children. This gives such a unique point of view in an otherwise adult driven world.

 3. Halloween
I can remember cuddling up next to my mother with all of my siblings to watch this movie (and subsequent series). I can't honestly handle ghosts. Ghosts freak me tf out! But I can deal with movies about murders. So when I was old enough to start watching scary movies, I would stay away from anything supernatural and stick with the movies about serial killers (makes sense...).

 4. Scream
Another classic murder movie made into a series. These movies are always on repeat every Halloween season. The worst part about this movie, though, was walking around on Halloween trick-or-treating as a small child and seeing all of the 'scream' costumes out. I can remember staring all of them down and making sure I knew where they were at all times. Thank God I always went out in packs, or I probably would have peed myself every time I saw one!

 5. The Nightmare Before Christmas
I honestly didn't get into this movie until I went to college (strange, I know). For whatever reason, this wasn't a show I watched growing up. I remember coming to college and people being shocked I had never seen it before. As soon as I saw it, I knew it was going to be a classic Halloween movie-- even as a young adult. My sophomore year of college, I was so cool & had so many friends I stayed in on Halloween and watched it.. by myself. There used to be Instagram proof of this evening, but I have since then deleted the picture, hahah.

 6. A Nightmare on Elm's Street
Now, I know I said earlier that I can't handle ghosts-- which is completely true. I honestly and truly can't. I still have nightmares every time I watch a movie or show with a ghost in it. In recent years, I have forced myself to watch ghostly entertainment. My logic is the more I watch the more okay I'll be in the future. It is inherently flawed logic, and I have, in fact, woken up several times over the past few months shrieking from a nightmare, but I love Halloween, so I will continue torturing myself. :)

 7. The Shining
The first time I watched this movie was after a long night of trick-or-treating at my friend Ali's house. Her neighborhood was the best to trick-or-treat in. We has lots of other school friends in the area and the houses always gave out the best candy. It was the perfect place to walk down the street squad deep in our matching costumes. After an evening of fun, we begged her mother to put on a scary movie for us to watch before we went to sleep. We were only in 6th or 7th grade, so she stayed up to watch it with us. I can still remember her racing to the tv to cover up the naked lady she forgot about with the movie box (yes, I was alive when movies were on cassette tapes).

 8. The Vampire Diaries
This is another show I highly recommend watching! I've been addicted to this show since my senior year of high school and I can't wait for the next season to premiere on the 21st! This show focuses mainly on vampires (obvi), but there are so many other supernatural elements thrown in. I've been dying to re-watch the series. The Damon, Elena, Stephan love triangle is my actual favorite!

 9. Rocky Horror Picture Show
The music theatre geek in me had to include this lovely number to the list. Although, I've never watched it live, this movie has been such a Halloween classic. Various groups at Pitt stage this show every Halloween season, so I should probably get my butt out and watch it eventually.

 10. Hocus Pocus
Last, but certainly not least is the pinnacle of Halloween movies-- Hocus Pocus. I also watched this movie as a young child at a sleepover & ever since I was hooked! I loved the fact that the talking cat was such an important character in the movie. ((crazy cat lady alert)) This movie was the starting point of my love for Halloween. Ever since then, the magic and mystery continually drew me in. From this point on, I put my abnormal fear of everything aside in the spirit of the holiday and reveled in the idea that magic could be waiting around the next corner -- all you had to do was look for it.




xoxo,



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Fall Hats & Blanket Scarves With Sammy Dress

Hello lovelies! & welcome back to my blog. I have been in full fall mode lately! This past weekend Mason and I made pumpkin snickerdoodles and God were they delicious. I had originally wanted to make apple pie cinnamon rolls, but I'm really not that great in the kitchen yet, so we decided to start things small. They seriously turned out BOMB! Fully cooked, yet still light and fluffy and full of pumpkin. I snapped the adventure and will definitely snap the next time I make them! I've also been watching an absurd amount of American Horror Story. I had perviously watch part of the 3rd and 4th season, but I never watched the first two and wanted to go back and start from scratch. AHS is easily the scariest, yet most intriguing show I've ever watched! That is, aside from Stranger Things, which I am also currently watching. Two of my littles come over every week and we shriek in my apartment every time the monster gets close. There are just so many fall/Halloween inspired things I want to do and not nearly enough time! 





*Disclaimer: This outfit was gifted to me by Sammy Dress for an honest review. All opinions are my own.







Outfit Details: Hat / Choker / Dress / Scarf / Booties


When it comes to fall fashion, you will almost never find me without a scarf and booties. I have at least three plaid scarves and a plethora of other fun designs. As fashionable as scarves are, though, I'm also the coldest person you will ever meet. It has to be 95 degrees outside for me to get hot and I get sick so easily as soon as the temperature dips below 65. Scarves are absolutely a necessity! This scarf from Sammy Dress was the perfect addition to my collection. The blue and brown color palate paired with the reversible print keeps things interesting, but isn't too loud. The real wow factor of this scarf is the price. Guys, I snagged this warm & fuzzy scarf on clearance for only $6.58!! If you're in the market for a warm blanket scarf, but don't want to break the bank, this is seriously the scarf for you. 

And those booties?! I was never a huge fringe girl, but I think this fall season has changed me! I love the small added flare at the sides. The fringe detail doesn't take away from the simplicity of the design, but enhances it. I was honestly a little worried these shoes wouldn't be comfortable or good for my feet, but I've worn them every day this week and don't see that trend ending anytime soon! 












It's no secret that I've gone head over heals for this outfit! I could talk about this outfit for days if you let me. I love how affordable and versatile each of these pieces are. I can mix and match them with so many different styles and that's what's so awesome about Sammy Dress. On point fashion at a fraction of the cost! If you've read my last two posts about Sammy Dress (you can catch up here and here!), you already know how crazy I am about their site. But don't take my word for it! 


Be sure to check Sammy Dress out:



Shout out to my wonderful boyfriend, Mason, for being an amazing photographer! 







xoxo,



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Speakeasies in New York City

Welcome back to my blog, lovelies! Today I am so excited to talk a little about my trip to NYC this past weekend. For the longest time I wanted to go back to New York City. I visited for the first time my senior year of high school and missed it every day since. This year, as a birthday gift to myself, my boyfriend and I went up to the city to visit my sister and her boyfriend. If you followed along with the adventures on my snapchat, you know how on the go everything was! The weekend flew by so fast and I'm still shocked we were able to get the amount of things done that we were able to do!



Wait. While we were there we visited two speakeasies! I was so unbelievably happy to live out my Nancy Drew dream of walking into hidden rooms through secret entrances. The first speakeasy was located behind a hotdog shop. Yes, a hotdog shop! How inconspicuous is that?! We walked in and to the left of the room was a phone booth. When you stepped into the phone booth, you picked up the phone -- stated the name under your reservation -- and the wall of the phone booth opened up to a dark, intimate bar! We ordered specialty cocktails and munched on tater tots and gourmet hotdogs (guess that had to come into play at some point). My hotdog had hummus on it and if that is not the most NY thing to do, I don't know what is. This was by far my favorite speakeasy because of how relaxed the environment was. Maybe it had something to do with the fact that it was a Thursday night, but everything was so warm and cozy-- I felt like an early century writer during prohibition.



The second speakeasy was a lot more glitz and glamour. The facade of this one was a pawn shop. The lime green walls and odd nicknacks almost reminded me of a Halloween movie gone wrong, but towards the back of the shop a section of the wall opened to reveal the most elegant bar I've ever been too. A spiral staircase immediately to the right featured a dazzling, oversized chandelier and everything else in this speakeasy was just as ornate and beautiful! In the back on the first floor was an actual restaurant that you couldn't even walk into if you didn't have reservations (the bouncer promptly kicked us back to the correct side of the speakeasy as soon as we stepped foot over the line). Speaking of reservations-- you had to have a reservation to sit anywhere in the building. Needless to say, my two year old Keds and I felt vastly out of place. Even so, I'm so excited to go back one day a little more dressed up this time.












Can we take a second to talk about this outfit? The nude heals and black dress keep things formal and elegant, while the leather jacket brings both of these aspects back down to earth. Not too dressy, not too informal. Perfect for New York City!


We had so many more adventures this past weekend and I can't wait to share them all with you! Subscribe to be the first to see more posts about brunch, Matilda and my 15 minutes of fame and don't forget to follow my social medias for all things Rachel Lynn. Until next time! 




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Afternoon Tea Time .06: October Goals


Hey, everyone! Things have been a little quiet on the blog lately. Last week was my birthday and I visited my sister and her boyfriend in NYC to celebrate. It was such an exciting and exhausting experience. If you followed along on my Snapchat (rgolden75) you got the full force of my NYC adventures. I feel like I saw and did so much and there was still so much I wanted to do. I'm already planning out my next trip! Now that I'm back and settling into the rhythm of life in Pittsburgh I'm more motivated than ever. New month, new adventures!



September Goals:

Personal: 
1. Read two books Ptolemy's Gate by Jonathan Stroud. This was an amazing ending to a thrilling trilogy! I put the book down after finishing and just sat in shock. If you're looking for a thrilling fantasy series, the Bartimaeus trilogy is what you should read!  I was only able to complete half of this, but I had a pretty busy month, and I'm glad I even had time to read one full book!

2. Learn to cook one fall inspired dish - For whatever reason, cooking has just not been a priority for me. I almost always opt for whatever is easiest to throw together. This upcoming month I have to be better about this.

3. Finish New Girl - I cried during the season finale. Nick and Jess are just meant to be together. The current season just started and I can't wait to start watching it! I hope they end up together. 

4. Plan birthday trip to NYC - I just made it back yesterday and I had such a blast! I have so many posts about it planned. Be on the lookout for all things NYC! There will be speakeasies and bottomless brunch involved. :) 

For the Blog:
1. Reach 1,500 followers on IG & engage more - Seriously thought I was going to make it this month. I've still been really bad at engaging and with all the planning for NYC, I have barely been on IG this month.

2. Reach 550 followers on Twitter 

3. Reach 300 followers on Pinterest  - I had so much fun working on growing and engaging on my different social media platforms. Pinterest was definitely my favorite to work with this month. Fall pins are my weakness!

4. Reach 500 followers on Facebook

5. Write blog posts ahead of timeI wasn't able to write all of my posts ahead of time, but I was able to for a few of them. This took so much of the stress out of the blogging process! I'm a procrastinator by nature, but writing ahead of time really helped the process run more smoothly. Slow progress is still progress!

6. Schedule blog posts for the whole month - I was able to write posts ahead of time because I had my whole month planned out.  My editorial calendar saved me. I loved being able to look at my calendar and see how the posts flowed and switch things around if necessary. I love staying organized, so this made my Type A self very happy. :) This will definitely be something I start implementing every month.




October Goals:

Personal:
1. Read Two Books - I want to finish The Ring of Solomon by Jonathan Stroud and start on Water for Elephants. Hopefully, I'll have time to work on The Lord of the Rings trilogy, but that may be a bit ambitious for all the other activities I have planned.

2. Learn to cook one fall inspired dish - I seriously need to start cooking more. This one is a must for me. Apple pie and pumpkin bread sound soo yummu. Leave me links to your favorite fall recipes in the comments below!

3. Finish AHS Season 1 - I started watching this the other night and promptly had a nightmare. hahah, It was totally worth it, though! The first season is so good. Perfect for the spookiness of October!

4. Complete at least 5 Fall Bucket List items - I have so many fall-inspired activities I want to do and I feel like I have next to no time to get them accomplished! I can't wait to get started, though :)


For the Blog:
1. Reach 1,500 followers on Instagram & engage more - Persistance will pay off!

2. Continue to work on growing Twitter, Pinterest, & Facebook - Last month I was so concerned with all my other social medias that I left IG to the wayside. I still want to keep up with the other platforms, but IG is my main focus.

3. Write 4 blog posts ahead of time

4. Update editorial calendar for October

5. Organize and send out first Newsletter - Everyone tells me that a newsletter is such a game changer. It's been something I've always wanted to get around to but never did. I think I'm going to start it off as being bi-weekly. That way I don't bite off more than I can chew. October will be the month I start it!




I seriously can't wait to get to work! What are your goals for October??





xoxo,



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